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Small things that help, today.
Free, practical guidance drawn from the principles we teach. Useful on their own, and no substitute for training or professional support.
Starting the conversation
Choose a private, unhurried moment. Say what you’ve noticed, without labels: “You’ve seemed quieter lately. How are you really doing?” Then wait.
Listening without fixing
Resist the urge to solve. Reflect back what you hear, ask open questions, and let them set the pace.
Asking directly about suicide
If you are worried, ask clearly: “Are you thinking about suicide?” Asking does not put the idea in someone’s head. It opens the door to help.
Encouraging professional help
Offer to help find a doctor, counsellor or local service. Practical help, like making a call together, often matters most.
Looking after yourself
Supporting someone can be heavy. Set boundaries, talk to someone you trust, and don’t carry it alone.
What not to say
Avoid “cheer up”, comparisons, or minimising. Curiosity and patience are more helpful than reassurance that sounds rushed.
Urgent help
If someone is in immediate danger, call emergency services now.
Stay with the person if it is safe to do so, remove obvious means of harm if you can, and contact a local crisis line. We are a training organisation and cannot provide crisis support.
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